Nothing should be left unsaid.
Well, don’t hold me to that. There are times we all need to put a sock in it.
Right now isn’t that time.
The last few years I have sent my mom (and dad) a gift a day through the month of December. I guess it is my own version of an advent calendar and was in lieu of a single gift Christmas Day. Their move to assisted living meant less room for stuff and more room for thinking creatively. Most of the gifts were driven by a memory with hopes that I could regift the light they have brought to our lives. Shout wipes generated the most laughter, next to my dad seeking out what might be candy and scarfing it when mom was in the shower. And a favorite was a memory from each grandchild that was typed in red and green.
She hung those memories on their tree.
The final gift is best described by the letter I wrote to her. It is very personal, and the video attached will most likely only make sense to us and doesn’t even end on point. It is ok.
Nothing should be left unsaid.

Joy of My Life – Chris Stapleton
What we didn’t expect, was my dad’s interest in watching the video of memories everyday, numerous times a day.
He remembers.
Did I tell you baby…you are the ….
Joy of My Life (Youtube)
Thank you Chris Stapleton, for bringing this song home.
While there is time, let us do good.
Wind Kisses, Donna
Beautiful message and actions for your parents …. and a wonderful song to boot. Best wishes for your 2022!
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It’s such a great song. I was happy it spoke to me this way for my parents. Most grateful my dad “gets it”. ( a 2018 stroke changed everything).
Thanks again.
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Such a beautiful memory, Donna, and sentiment about the importance of the holidays and the roles we each play in creating special memories. A tearjerker of a song 🙂 Happy New Year to you and your family!
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Thanks Terri. Probably was not really applicable to your prompt, but I felt like I wanted it here. Thank you again. It’s a nice start to 2022 .
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I liked it and it makes sense, happy your linked, Donna!
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Thanks Terri. I do love the energy and life you bring to your blog. Donna
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What a lovely tribute, Donna. I loved the video. 🙂
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Thanks Marsha! I didn’t really expect anyone to watch it, as it is long and truly photos that would trigger things in my mom and hopefully my dad. The song is amazing. Saying we many of us need to say….
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It was lovely to watch.
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Oh, now that is one of the sweetest things ever 😢🤗❤
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Thank you Lisa. They loved it. Made me happy.
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Sending you a big hug… brought a tear to my eye… a beautiful tribute. Such a beautiful song.
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It really is a beautiful song, and I am glad it spoke to me with them in mind. I still get teary too when I watch. (And my husband cleared his throat a few times , but wouldn’t admit a tear🥰)
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Ahh! How sweet and special and tender and joyous! Thank you kindly for sharing this video with us. ❤ Much love to all of you!
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Thank you Manja.
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