My first recollection of valuable time was the summer before I entered college. My high school running coach promised life would get busy, and sometimes in the way. His infinite wisdom was funny to me at the time. “Remember…there will always be an hour in the day for yourself. Use it.”
I assumed his advice was directed at my running career. With a scholarship, and fresh beginnings on the horizon, life felt pretty, dang good.
Why would I need to find an hour?
I learned pretty quickly, he was right. Away from studies, practices, late night fun, and new friends, I needed me back.
Jump to today and Anne Christine challenges us with Alone Time.
Even though our life experiences define our character, it is our alone time, that helps us understand it. Do you agree life is not always tucked in nice and cozy? It’s not. Life does get in the way. The hard stuff is hard, and we don’t always have the luxury of choosing the easy way.
One thing we can be deliberate about is that grounding force, time, that brings us back to center.

Alone Time:
Back to college, and my weekends started with long runs on the railroad track next to my dorm in New England. Ironically enough I never fell, and my connection to the outdoors grew. An hour morphed into leaving a note for curious friends and I would return with apples from a wild orchard, stories of the changing seasons, and me.

In fact, I think it was running that sparked my interest in gardening. Harmony in native landscapes and balance in the natural world intrigued me and was a direct correlation to living life. And my old running shoes quickly became my garden shoes.

At The Oregon Garden, strategically placed plants and shrubs offered me a lesson in landscape design. A volunteer opportunity, with spaces to call my own, taught me reflection, productivity, and growth. The Children’s Garden was a favorite.

A life of travel and frequent moves, and a kayak became instrumental in keeping me close to the elements of nature. And while I admit to not always being alone, I was OK with that. There is something quite magical with a seal as curious as I am.

There is always balance…somewhere along the way.
And…there will always be an hour in the day for yourself. Use it.

Wind Kisses, Donna
Thank you to Ann-Christine/LEYA , for reminding us of well-needed and deserved, Alone Time. What do you do to reconnect with yourself as she does here. It looks different to all of us. If you blare the stereo and dance around while cleaning the house, or if you sing the wrong words louder than the car radio, you know what I am talking about.
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A special thank you to guest host Bren, as she took us all on a journey outside our comfort zone. The challenge sparked new ideas and a fresh softness to our photography.
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I miss kayaking, which used to be the main thing other that “work” that my husband and I did. You must understand that we both were artists and writers and LOVED our work, so actually, it was no great sacrifice to spend ALL of our time doing it, but we loved to kayak, but after he died, although I moved to Mexico where I lived on a lake, I knew no other kayakers and with the amount of water hyacinth in the lake, every year at least one person drowned, so I sold the kayaks. Your post made me remember and nostalgia set in.
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Thank you for sharing, Judy. I appreciate your sentiment and it’s a great hobby with a partner, a peaceful hobby. I enjoyed bringing it on our larger boat and kayak to places the boat couldn’t get to. We have since passed them in. I miss it too.
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Beautiful post Donna ❤️
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Thank you.
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Ever so true Donna. Making time for yourself is most important to reconnect to the earth and sky 🙂
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Yes. It matters for a healthy life.
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I love the garden shot and the seal. I think too many people equate being alone with being lonely. Here’s what I said on Ann-Christine’s post about how I view it. “This is expresses my thoughts: “If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself.” I like alone time but that doesn’t mean I’m lonely. It means I’m gathering my soul to for the next bit of the journey. “. I need alone time just as I need together time. They balance each other.
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Whoops. That was on Tina’s post. 🤣
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So true. Sometime I think people confuse the two. I created a post on that awhile back. I believe it. I am much better with alone time.
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hi – I liked your words about alone time and how it moved us through your image s-
and my fav today?
the sneakers!
from running to garden
🙂
partly because they remind me of a favorite pair I used to have – and now have other favs – but also the photo was just fun
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Thank you. The photo is a bit symbolic for me so I am glad you liked it.
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Oh my word… that last photo! I can’t stop looking at it!
Oh how I love my ME time! I make sure I have a little alone time each day… it’s when I journal or read.
And some days … I make sure I use a whole day for ME! Oh how sweet that is… when it happens.
Okay… I’m off to gaze at that last photo again along with the garden of zinnias!
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It’s so good for the soul, that alone time.
I spent lots of days kayaking beneath the Tetons. I remember the first time, this photo. No words, pure tranquility.
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You learned very early about needing time for yourself. This is a wonderful theme. Great hearing your story.
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Thank you Dan. I think when we finally DO learn, we are better for it. I know I am.
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Perhaps John Muir had it right – “Keep close to Nature’s heart . . . and break clear away, once in a while, and climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods. Wash your spirit clean.”
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Exactly right. He sure gives words to our thoughts. Often…
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There are so many valuable lessons you discuss punctuated perfectly with your beautiful images, Donna! You would never believe that I’m an introvert by nature so I really value my alone time and quiet. I’m a talkative introvert but quiet is what recharges my battery each day. I didn’t know you were a runner–a college scholarship-worthy runner! Running is certainly a solitary sport, one that I also enjoyed for years as my knees will attest. I understand why you like to get away from Phoenix and get away from it all!
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Yes. I am very much an introvert, like yourself. It doesn’t mean we don’t line people. It just means we need that time.
Recharge is why I wake up with the sun.
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Beautiful post Donna – who knew you were a college scholarship runner?!?! It is indeed a great way to find alone time and to enjoy nature as you cruise along. I am also a runner but I actually “lumber” more than cruise LOL. I love that it led you to nature and from there to gardening. A lovely trajectory. Loved your post and you images. A wonderfully thoughtful post that offered a glimpse into who you’ve become and why.
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Thank you. Yes, those years certainly shaped me. In many ways.
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Thank you again
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Wow. Wonderful that you took those words to heart even at a young age. Because it is so true,
XOXO
Jodie
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Thank you Jodie.
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That one hour, is so true. I find mine at the end of the day, with my tea and book that I try to read until my eyes close…! I absolutely adore the Oregon Garden photo as it also made me realise my gardening as very little to do with planning… still, it works for me.
I loved reading your post, Donna and your photos. A wonderful of an insight on you.
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Thank you Sofia. Yes…life experiences do tell our stories for us. Thank you for your kind words.
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That advice from your running coach is so relevant for all of us -thank you for sharing it. And your photos speak volumes about the value of alone time!
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Thank you Sarah. I always seem to find the hour. Even in the busier days of family time, work, etc. I always did.
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Your running coach gave a wonderful advice. Yes, use it! Thank you for sharing your stories and experience, Donna! To me gardening was a great way to enjoy alone time. I love the last image especially.
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Thank you Amy. Yes, gardening! I can easily get lost in a garden.
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Beautiful post, Donna. Thinking about you unning on the railroad tracks makes me nervous for the young you. You have had the fortune to live such an interesting life. Where in Oregon did you take that picture? I don’t remember that garden. The bright flowers are gorgeous.
I am one of the fortunate ones that has always had some alone time. Even while working, I traveled all over the state of California and since I was in the center of the state with no great airport, I drove to most places. I have had less time alone since I’ve been retired and in Arizona, but I know exactly what you mean.
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The garden is called The Oregon Garden. If you ever get a chance it’s stunning, and Silver Falls Park is nearby too, and a must!
I have been a lot of places for sure. Learned early on love where you live. There is always something new to discover. Thanks MArsha.
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There is always something new!
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Nice picture of the Oregon Garden, Donna! I gotta get there in the spring.
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Yes, please! I’m curious how the children’s garden has changed.
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