How are you?
No, really, how are you?
Not sure any of us know how to answer that question these days. The unknowns keep us wondering and the knowns are kind of scary, aren’t they?
I like to think everything just feels a bit awkward.
It isn’t all that bad,
Is it?
Traveling 81mph during rush hour is kinda nice, getting creative in the kitchen with leftovers is fun, and have you noticed how organized you have become and how abundant the gardens are?
So why do some days feel harder than others?
I am not talking about the reemergence of Twister© in the house. That is downright humbling.
I am talking about those gut wrenching feelings that aren’t answered. I am talking about fear, frustration, and anger. And more often then not, sadness.
To keep it real, most days people are waving from the proper distance during my morning walks, but yesterday a woman left the 10′ wide trail and plastered herself against a chain link fence facing away from me to protect herself.
I felt sad for her.
Later, Costco’s line was 200 deep. I refused to wait and drove by. Sadly, I noticed the masks, the distance, and people facing away from each other while on their phones waiting.
Is this who we are now?
Everything has changed. I miss the neighbors gathering at fire pits on Friday evenings. I miss traveling to New Hampshire every few months to see family, and I miss smiling faces.
Don’t you?
Can’t we just try to bask in this moment. Can we record what we are doing as we walk through this historic and emotional chaos? Can we understand, this too shall pass? And can we also understand that the simplicity that has entered our lives is a gift? Maybe a message?
Maybe?
Wind Kisses, Donna
What are you doing these days that puts a smile on your face?
To put a smile on my own face, I participate in the daily Discover Prompts this month, hopefully making others smile in return. Here is the latest challenge:
https://wordpress.com/discover-wordpress/2020/04/10/discover-prompts-day-10-orchestrate/
Stay safe 🙂
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Thank you!!!
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A great reminder that we are human beings and thus, we need each other, Donna. Thankfully this will pass and I refuse to believe this is our new normal…I prefer temporary normal! Nice to “see” you, looks like I accidentally unfollowed you
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Yes. Fingers crossed for temporary normal. Thanks Terri, Been in and out. I miss my blogging community though.
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Such a lovely piece. A bittersweet kinda lovely.
Ps. Wish I was this positive.
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Seems like the only choice these days us to look forward. Lol. So many crazy changes.
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Yea. Nothing seems normal anymore
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This post was a good summary of how I have felt the past month. Such a multitude of feelings…. fear, anxiety, worry, and then sometimes gratitude for this “slowing down” of life, the time I have to get more creative with organizing my house and in the kitchen! Lately, it’s anger about everyone wanting to reopen just when we were flattening the curve! I hope all we have done is not undone. I can’t help but think we’re rushing things.
Thanks for this post. I love the photos, especially the birds…. what a beautiful blue color!!
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So many mixed feelings. Thanks for stopping by Gail. My guess is this will be our summer. Hang in there. Donna
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Yes, I think it will be our summer and perhaps our fall too!
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I have a great list! Lots to get done in that time.
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I went back to see where my blogging activity ceased last year and now will slowly work to the present. I must report that my present looks still very much like this: limited, protected and rather futile. It will get better when I can again visit my people in Slovenia. All well to you!
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It is so nice to see you are back. Thank you for visiting me. I too have just returned after some time off. This past year looked very different for all of us. I will return to see my family in a few weeks finally. I will pray you can begin looking toward booking a trip. Thank you again.
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